How to make their love not only to lose to win?

In the emotional feelings of hurt, it was angry, resorting to the mass media, requiring fair; was heartbroken, to end their own lives, to obtain relief; and was jealous of intolerable, brandished a knife and killing of lover, to achieve revenge; others go back on sharing, eliminate rival shot, to seek perfection.
 

 
Yimapingchuan love is not always the way, breaking up is the only way most people practice life.

 
In discussing the technical details of breaking up before to share with you Dr. Zhang Yiyun in "Love is very simple," a book advocating a "Win-Win not lose" love, perhaps you will find another point of view, breaking up can be a a good thing.

 
A while ago, there have been some community Daoguang erotic ghost disputes.

 
In the emotional feelings of hurt, it was angry, resorting to the mass media, requiring fair; was heartbroken, to end their own lives, to obtain relief; and was jealous of intolerable, brandished a knife and killing of lover, to achieve revenge; others go back on sharing, eliminate rival shot, to seek perfection.

 
"Who taught him (her) like this to me?" This is consistent with the idea of the parties. As a result, the anger, sadness, jealousy and frustration and other emotions to become tangled and the energy of an appalling attack, in a rational moment of collapse, causing the injury can never make up.
How to look at love in the end, to avoid the outbreak of the tragic ending it?

 
First of all, come know love.
Most people forget, or do not know, love is there than "looking for marriage" is more important purpose. From a psychological point of view, to establish close relationships with others, we develop a healthy personality of the important process of maturation. In other words, love, in fact has an important psychological task.

 
A mental task: understand their own
Through close interaction with the other half, we can be able to find all about his state of mind:
"Oh, the original is much easier than expected I'm jealous."
"It seems that I really hate people too much about me."
"My God, I actually asked someone else everything is obedient people."
Such and such for a cover, increase their understanding, the outline will gradually clear themselves up.

 
Mental Task two: ability to cultivate love
In the other half to spend life with trivial details, we will also learn "love" really means:

 
"So I can not just their own likes and dislikes, also need to respect his ideas."

 
"Maybe sometimes, even a modest compromise, sacrifice, it is absolutely necessary."

 
When we understand how long-term intimacy with another person to get along, will enhance their capacity for love.

 
So, love lost and won, not to see the last hand there is no more than a wedding ring, if we have on the success or failure in love, the look is not completed these two love the mental tasks. As long as the emotional experience, we know more about themselves, and also ability to produce better lover, then say goodbye to break even, but also celebrate the good, because the task successfully reached, but it is moving towards a "mature" before step a big step, as a condition better, and more irresistible charming partner, the next experience a wonderful feeling, certainly within reach.

 
Conversely, even if the singing wedding march, two people have Hunhundundun to get along, even barely maintain the marriage void, then honestly, awful feeling in fact is a failure.

 
Therefore, the romance does not mean failure, but marriage does not mean success. So, before you plunge into the emotional world of the romantic longing for drawing near climax erotic feelings and experiences, but also do not forget to think about these two mental tasks, you will not feel the break, but failed , as long as the task is completed, you are the winner