Normal marital relationship, it may be happiness, but also to let their parents and their children live in a more comfortable environment. But sometimes, not enemies would meet somehow, which inevitably quarrels between husband and wife, or a simple thing to come up in bursts, but why some couples noisy life, but also life together, but sometimes couples never noisy but it will unexpected crisis, come to an end, indicating that noise is not necessarily the fundamental relationship between husband and wife will be shaken, not noisy but does not explain the couple husband and wife relationship will not break the bottom line. Husband and wife no matter what, but once the bottom line of breaking relations, said the red light is not necessarily immediately, to be a divorce to final settlement. I would like to have this husband-wife relationship should be ten bottom line, not a breakthrough.
1, the man was playing his wife, education, women are playing is to hurt her husband. Between husband and wife, the man is physically strong, beat his wife if the hands, the feelings will be torn down at the end Valley, said women can not afford not, have filed for divorce. Finally, even if a woman forced to forgive each other, but there is always after the emotional scar. Once the hands, especially men, say the feelings are not necessarily in the future, sometimes impulsive hands once again, until the hands become a habit. There will also be playing again without the feeling. Feelings towards men, the more the strong physically, the more non-use of brute force, even if the relationship between two people completely broken, and need not use abusive to each other. This is better than a woman playing a man, can make men become clear, sometimes an education.
2, extra-marital affairs is bound to be underground, open play is the marriage complete. Spouse having an affair, but they do not know, or can not be sure, the relationship between husband and wife may also be maintained, especially one that does not want a divorce, but want to find some people who extramarital romance, extramarital affairs do not necessarily lead to marital breakdown. However, if a party open to extra-marital affairs, no doubt is a direct challenge to marriage. At this time, the other is absolutely not tolerate.
3, scolding the other party can show called love, but criticize the other's loved ones can only increase hate. Between husband and wife create a ruckus, it was said: accused of playing is like love, but to what degree, only the husband and wife know. Criticize each other may not be very deadly, but no matter because of anything for a conflict, not criticize each other's relatives, especially each other's biological parents, which even worse than calling each other, so that the other is difficult to accept. Because the Chinese people the most about filial piety, as there is no blood relationship between husband and wife but the most close to him, if the party accused the other of the parents, must make him feel angry, you may immediately pumping each other's face.
4, may be forgiven the occasional derailment, no hurt feelings London to despair. As a husband and wife, and many other relatives live together often, or travel frequently, but if there are not ethics of love, such as the wife with the husband's brother or father has an affair, or a husband and Yi Mei, which are adultery. Breakdown of direct relations between husband and wife make it, even if for some reason to keep husband and wife, husband and wife would also be distorted. Thus, both spouses must consciously hold their own in the family part and do love each other, but also polite and restrained. Between husband and wife, and some special cases, it may derailment, if this episode derailed just married life, and have a no problem, but if it is not ethics of the situation, with the other party that may be directly sent to the "Jueqing Gu" to the .
5, can not deceive the other party feelings get money, but can not get money to support lover. Between husband and wife should share weal and woe, but if one side for some improper purpose, such as gambling or giving money to the woman outside and so on, looking for some excuse to deceive each other, to swindle money out. In truth, the immediate crisis will lead to the relationship between husband and wife. If so shaken the economic foundation of the family, it will shake the emotional foundation.
6, the secret online dating is a private matter, but ran away from home no going back. I believe online dating, have the opportunity to foaming, and users looking for an excuse to date, and even friends infatuation, find an excuse, or for no reason to leave home. Finally get money Pianse nowhere, ran back. This woman would hurt her husband, forcing people determined to make a clean break, early retirement has to do.
7, on the other side does not matter a bit hard, but can not encourage parents to put pressure on. There is a conflict between husband and wife, has always been a matter between husband and wife, but if something happens between husband and wife one to exaggeration of their parents, so that generations ago to blending between husband and wife thing. Especially parents to use their pressure to the other, a long time, we must let the other party are seriously ill or hurt self-esteem, and let the husband and wife come to an end, often pull their loved ones blending, the conflict between husband and wife not only can not solution, they often worsen the serious and may divorce.
8, surrender the certificate, according to the other side, but the other monitor is too unreasonable. Really grasp the other handle, you can force the other party to correct, or as evidence in divorce, but paranoia is the enemy between husband and wife, sometimes, had some feelings, but skeptical mind will be twisted to make some of the other side can not stand, or even Some crazy things. Such as to harm suspects, or the use of various means of monitoring each other's privacy. Once such an act, husband and wife relationship will become very tense. If you do not want a divorce to do so is not necessary.
9, between husband and wife to be unreasonable not to abuse the foul smells. Between husband and wife to be rational unreasonable, something that matter, if the party at every turn to move foul language, verbal abuse, we will let each other a nervous breakdown. Because that one spouse has been abusive to each other as human beings do not.
10, extramarital love in easily understood, but the chaos of the destruction of the family back to sexually transmitted diseases. Extra-marital love, which for modern men and women is a common thing, we got used to. But the man or woman out chaos, no matter how ordinary cover, and even advertised how innocent he is, but when brought back out to sexually transmitted diseases, so that other couples also infected. Let husband and wife relationship must immediately break, in fact, such things are not uncommon. Such as AIDS, sexually transmitted, but also destroyed the family.
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