2010年10月23日星期六

Marriage need to guard against the eight signal

As time passes imperceptibly, got married affectionate enthusiasm has been replaced by apathy and indifference. If your marriage appears the following eight signal, you need to take notice.

 
No sweet talk
As we all know, sweet talk to his wife, together with some seasoning laugh laugh, seize the opportunity to admire her about it, husband and wife relationship is easier to get along.
Means the spouse's speech constitutes a harmonious relationship between husband and wife or one of the elements. Convey a meaning that there are very many ways, to see how you say. If you are interested in couples no longer sweet, this is a bad signal.
Especially keen on social activities
Two people are busy to participate in various dance or party among friends, in order to avoid close contact with the two men. Both at home alone, the old open to television, but also do not want to talk too much.
First date is no longer fit to wear the clothes
United States, a study reveals: in 2500 claimed the couple disharmony, not happy to be interviewed women, 10 years after marriage, the average weight gain of 54 pounds per person. The implementation of this research psychologist Richard said: "In the weight gain on the part of women, to increase their dominance in the family and a sense of achievement, while other women, so you can protect yourself against sexual harassment by unnecessary, of course, her husband will be less interested in them. "
Without the gentle touch
Reduce the sex life between husband and wife can understand a lot of legitimate reasons, such as with newborn children, work pressure, mental stress, illness. But if several months are indifferent to each other, it could be a problem, which means that you have an interval between the mind an invisible wall. Over time, the family will not be home.

 

    
Ashamed to put a photo of two people on the table
Room no photos of you, if any, is casually placed on the debris pile under the bed, covered with dust. At this time, you should reflect on the.
Do you leave quietly waiting for the day
"Sometimes I want to leave him. But I dare not think about it, because I do not know how people will look at me, so I feel very embarrassed and had to blame their own dreams, he does not concentrate on." If you always have this idea that your marriage is very dangerous.
Do not want to spend the holiday with your partner
Together in the holiday resort, is an admirable cause for rejoicing. However, if the resort to select only a short holiday, it means that mood and your partner stay together for too long, and sometimes this is a sign of emotional cracks.
They no longer fight
The young couple who fight all day but there is tightness in the stomach than the husband and wife live together more easily. Quarrel at least show that you have passion, have the courage to communicate in good faith. The silence that lazy indifference is the largest divorce signs. Quarrel between husband and wife, there are two: First, angrily course, the anger of a cancellation, all peace; the second is light, this time is turning back, irreversible

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